Eleanor Gertrude Shann, 1927-2025

My grandmother, Eleanor Gertrude Shann, nee Ryan, passed away on Tuesday, one week after her 98th birthday.

She was smart: After her divorce, as a single mother she attended and graduated from Rutgers University.

She cared about those who needed some help: as a social worker for decades in Morris county, she took a human-first approach to helping families who were most vulnerable.

She loved a great story: with a memory like an elephant, she could paint a picture of a day from 30 years before, clear as a photograph.

I took the opportunity to visit her in July, and we shared some quality time together. I’ll miss her a lot.

Here’s a photo of her (center) in Ocean City, NJ – a place where she had been going every summer since her own childhood – and where I went many times when I was growing up and we would visit the family from CA.

2 women pose with 6 children, the year looks to be early-to-mid 1960s. A white house with blue shutters in the background.

This photo is one of many slides that I recently scanned from boxes of them which were in storage. I’m still figuring out the best way to edit these but they are a great look into that side of my family’s history.

An elderly woman laughing sitting at a dining room table, a young man sits next to her with an arm around her, smiling, looking at the camera while he takes the selfie of the two of them.

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6 responses to “Eleanor Gertrude Shann, 1927-2025”

  1. Frank Avatar
    Frank

    I’m so sorry for your loss. She was a great person and friend. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

    1. chris Avatar

      Thank you, Frank! She certainly was.

      1. Kris Beirne Avatar
        Kris Beirne

        I loved your Grandma like a big sister. She called us Cagney and Lacey when we worked in Protective Services. S better friend could not be found!

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    Kris Beirne

    Your Grandmother was a colleague of mine working for our County in Adult Protective Services. I always felt secure with her, inspired and energized to face whatever challenges that we faced to help those in need. Elly has been a great blessing in my life. I cherish her memory and look forward to meeting her on our next journey with Jesus.

  3. Pat Eldridge Avatar
    Pat Eldridge

    Wow Chris, that’s beautiful. You made her proud. We carry her spirit and values with us. Love you.

  4. Jessica Murphy Avatar
    Jessica Murphy

    I worked with Ellie for many years in APS. She was force to be reckoned with, smart, funny, and kind. She touched many lives for the better, and mine was one of them. Truly sorry for your loss. I will remember her fondly.

    Jessica M.

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